We are challenging the way couples therapy is done traditionally. Read more to understand how an intensive could be a jump start to the next phase in your relationship!

Roommate Syndrome, if not addressed can cause damage and resentment to your relationship that feels impossible to overcome at times if you let it go too long. Dive into what it is and what to do when you feel it creeping into your relationship.

Our emotional bank account isn’t talked about enough. Take some steps to evaluate your withdrawals and credits to your relationships emotional bank account.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy, is a type of therapy that is used to help address distress caused by traumatic memories and the emotions that typically accompany those memories.

In our previous blog post, we provided you with information on traumatic responding in relationships along with 4 helpful tips. Today, we are giving a more in-depth view of how to (1) call a time-out, (2) ground with the senses, (3) communicate assumptions, and (4) seek repair. So, let’s get started!

Have you ever felt as if you and your partner are speaking entirely different languages? Perhaps, you’ve even thought that they MUST be crazy!! Or “how can they take what I’ve said and turn it into….THAT?!!” Well, if you are in a relationship with someone who has experienced trauma (which, let’s be frank, is A LOT of people) then keep reading!

When education, family, and careers push us through growth we may not realize that life itself has been the driver and shaper of our individuality. We become who we are as we adapt to constant change. But what happens when that change begins to slow down? What happens to our identity? What happens to our relationships?

According to the DSM-5-TR (our newest diagnostic manual), trauma and ADHD are alike in that they both include difficulty with attention, concentration, and learning. The difference is that trauma symptoms generally appear following a traumatic event or series of events across the lifespan.

Some of us were raised in households where we were taught to think of feelings as a bad thing. “If you’re going to cry, go to your room and do it.” Or maybe you were upset by things out of your control, but your disappointment was called a tantrum and punished while no one took the time to ask why you were upset in the first place.

We have all experienced it. That little voice telling ourselves we are stupid, unworthy, unloved or a failure. Traditional wisdom says to just stop or ignore that negative thinking, but that is way easier said than done – and, frankly, not very helpful. So what does help?

As a couples therapist, I get many people in my office on the verge of ending a marriage or relationship. I can see the defeat and desperation in their face that they just don’t know what to do or how to move forward. Unfortunately, there is no magic formula or answer that can fix any relationship but there are certain things to consider before throwing in the towel. By no means is this list an end all be all but they are just consideration to challenge a different way of thinking.

Conflict is a part of every relationship that you have, you cannot avoid it. No matter your resistance or attempts to avoid the tension of conflict, you will eventually find yourself in a position where it is no longer an option to avoid.

Counseling can be defined as one or more individuals providing assistance and guidance to one or more individuals in order to resolve personal, social, career, or psychological problems. Knowing the definition, however, is not the same as understanding the profession. What kind of guidance and assistance? How does a counselor help with problems? Is counseling a good fit for me?

Romantic relationships are hard work just like any relationship. We have a way of talking about romantic relationships that we don’t in any other relationships in our lives. We talk about lust, being in love, love at first sight, falling IN love, falling OUT of love, and not being in love anymore.

The price tag for therapy can seem overwhelming and intimidating to think about adding in to your budget. Depending on the area you live in and the kind of therapy you are looking for, prices may vary for therapy which means that you should do the research on the therapist, the cost and the type of therapy before committing to someone for therapy.

The price tag for therapy can seem overwhelming and intimidating to think about adding in to your budget. Depending on the area you live in and the kind of therapy you are looking for, prices may vary for therapy which means that you should do the research on the therapist, the cost and the type of therapy before committing to someone for therapy.

Being a part of a family is hard work, like really hard work sometimes. There are so many people that we are connected with whether it is by blood or choice and keeping it all together is a task. We serve many roles in our life and not all of them look or feel the same. Not all of the relationships are healthy or stable at the same time either.

Being a part of a family is hard work, like really hard work sometimes. There are so many people that we are connected with whether it is by blood or choice and keeping it all together is a task. We serve many roles in our life and not all of them look or feel the same. Not all of the relationships are healthy or stable at the same time either.

We have all heard the saying, “Not my monkey, not my problem”, right? It is saying that people use to set boundaries and not take responsibility problems they don’t want to have to deal with. While I think this saying has so much value, I have also not actually come face-to-face with many monkeys in my life.

Relationships are difficult. There is no other way around it. We have many relationships in our life that come easy and others that take a lot of work! We don’t normally talk about or think about having a relationship with ourselves but take a step back and think about it.The relationship you have with yourself is the most important relationship that you have in your life.